Aggression on Bed
I met one of my gay friends after a long time, almost six months. Last i met him in the month of december 08, when we had sex.
This time, when we met, there was something a miss. I still didnt ask him anything but then he told me, that last time, when we had sex he felt hurt. It was more of physical hurt. I was too harsh with him during the act.
Now i know this friend, since last four years and we do have sex off and on. But he never complained me such. He said that i bit him too hard, and he felt aggression in me which was not called for.
I was not able to understand, why he felt so. I was just normal. But then I thought again.. and again... I think he is right, there can be few reasons for being aggressive on bed.
1. I am not getting enough sex and which is making me aggressive.
2. I am hurt emotionally, and thats why i am showing aggression during sex.
I was not able to find any other reason apart from two mentioned above for my aggression. I think i really need to have sex often... so that i should not hurt people while having sex.
rather... I think that your lack of emotional and sexual outlets has more to do with aggressive sex... you need to know affection.
Anonymous said... July 9, 2009 at 7:35 AM
Why are you "biting" someone you are having sex with? Isn't that a bit harsh? Also, I hope I don't sound like a "prude" but why would you have sex with a "friend" if he is "a friend" and not more?
Anonymous said... November 3, 2009 at 8:18 AM
I think you are right.. Its more to do with oppressive emotions, which make me more aggressive.
Unknown said... December 27, 2009 at 1:51 AM
Hmmm.. I am ok to have sex with a friend. whats the harm in it? I like biting, its my style in sex.. every body has its own style. I have met people, who love giving love bites to people..
Everybody has its own style of sex. Nothing is right or wrong in Sex. Thats what i think..
Unknown said... December 27, 2009 at 1:52 AM
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