HAPPY VALENTINE's DAY



Hey guys..
wish you a very happy valentine' s day!!!!!

Why am i always late in wishing you all... I really dont know.. but yes i am late. But on the other hand, whats so happy about this valentine's day.

By just celebrating this day, would we gay guys, find true love of our life. Would we be liberated enough to tell our true identity to all. Would we stop behaving like true hipocrates.... Would we stop making fun of other gays in front of our straight friends. Would we stop oogling at other guys when we are with our own guy. Would we stop behaving like sex maniacs, with a perpetual hard on.

Answer to all this is NO.. two capital letters.. NO..

still a very happy valentine's day to all.. :)

Hope my post gives u enough material to think......

Strange are ways of love

the latest song of Ishqiya " dil to baccha hai".... "heart is a kid"

yes, actually if you are in love, you really become a kid. How so ever old you are. I feel embarassed drooling on a person at the age of 32. But can not help it. I am in love. I dont even know if the other person likes me or not. But atleast i m in love and thats what matters as of now.

Lets see how it goes. Guys pray for me...

M drunk and in love

Its 2.53 am on 7th feb.. i am drunk cause i finished a quarter of smirnoff . I drink it with minute mail pulpy orange ( dude both these brands have not paid me) LOL..

OK i m in love again.. i think i can share it with you guys.... it is the same guy i talked abt it last post. I m meeting every day since last three days. but he is married, he is egoist, and he does not like me. Still i love him. Love doesnt take acceptance of other person, it just grows.. and thats what is happening currently. I am getting sucked in the feeling called love.. And i am loving it. The best part is that the other guy doesnt even know if i m in love with him.

we have never talked anything serious.. we just kissed once, that too on road.. but i still love him.. i dont know, how these feelings get created.. but i know i love him.. Lets hope, things go right. But i dont think so, he would love me..

He is telling me, that i have lost weight.. and i look like a HIV positive.. I know i have lost 4 kgs since i m in mumbai.. but i still dont look bad..

This guy has told me that if in one month i dont put on some weight, he will stop seeing me. I have started eating egg every night, and bananas to gain weight.

What u guys say.. i am actually drunk right now.. dont know what i m writing.. still i wanted to write..

so bye for now..

Today we say at Mc Donalds in ANdheri west, it is a cruising point, but as we both were together, no body approached us.

hmmmmmm something is brewing...

Yes... to tell you all something is brewing... almost a month since my last post here.. and yes life has been very hectic.. not only work wise.. where i am working my balls off with a sucker as my boss..

But also in my personal life... i m trying to make as much as i can of my mumbai trip.. But unfortunately nothing is coming up yet.. I met someone today.. seems promising.. but he is a married guy.. and looking for a friend... dont knw what exactly it means.. but i m ok for it..

Lets see how it goes...

HAPPY NEW YEAR - 2010

WISH YOU ALL A VERY HAPPY NEW YEAR...




WISH YOU A VERY HAPPY NEW YEAR...
Second Picture of 2010 is Courtesy http://adda4gayarts.blogspot.com/

Bollywood HOTTIES..

SHAHID KAPUR

KUNAL KAPOOR

JOHN ABRAHAM
I find this pictire, as the most sexiest picture of any bollywood actor ever taken. Sliding of undies only increase the sex appeal of John. Smooth, shining body can attract any guy...


All these pics come in Delhi Times. It looked more like a gay magazine, with so much flesh in a normal newspaper.. ENJOY







Any romantic relationship is based only on SEX!


Its a strong statement that i am making.. but i do believe in it. In any romantic relationship, sex is a very important part.


We have heard often that gay guys want nothing but just to suck the stick and screw the other's hole. But dont hetro guys look for the same too.. just to plough the hole of their girlor rather any available bloke... Why we have so many cases of rape. Sex is a NEED, a physical need of human beings and any romantic relationship grows, if both partners are satisfied, emotionally, intellectualy and sexually.... as well..


Haven't we heard of gigolos satisfying middle aged aunties' sexual desires. Havent we heard of red light areas massaging the male egos hanging below the belts... then why only gay guys are being targeted for carrying their dicks in hand to fill any mouth or asshole available.


Its normal for any man to satisfy his sexual urge and there is nothing wrong if a gay guy looks for sex on various online forums. If the guy dates another guy which ends in the bed, there is nothing wrong in it.


Lets see, how many guys turn up to have sex with me now ;)


Hey my boyfriend in making... dont worry, i m not having any fun here in mumbai.. Its pretty boring just working...




My Life... as of now...

With every passing day, i get so sure about my sexuality. But because of this, i am also scared of my future. As usual.. i am scared of my loneliness in future.. OK now let me tell u whats happening in my life currently.

Recently i met a guy from net only. Though our initial interaction was not very friendly. But since i have met him personally (since almost two weeks), i am feeling a warmth in our relationship. I really think alot about him. I dont know how things would go further. But currently i am engrossed with him, emotionally. I am not chatting / talking with him a lot cause i am in mumbai and he is there in delhi. Still, just thinking of him, gives me a feeling which is known to me. Yes this is not the first time, i am getting in love.. This feeling is of love only. But isnt it too soon. I dont know the guy much. I have just met him once. Still, i just feel melting in his arms.

Not to take credit out of him, still i think its more a feeling of love which i love. But its after a long time, when i really like someone. He is just another guy, and i would not mind at all introducing him to my friends and folks. He is idealogical, a little stubborn, someone who has strong principles and values, one guy who can go overboard sometimes, over indulgent. Not very successful but i am sure he can be great in his life.. he just need some support and thats why i am gonna be there... for him .. with him

He feels that i am acting as a Big Brother.. but he has told me that i am insecure deep inside somewhere.. and YES... i am insecure.. i am dying to have somebody who just give me a hug and say "Dont worry ! Things would be better. ". I am dying for that comfort and love, but i am scared of loosing it.. Each and everyone whom i ever liked, has gone out of my life somehow or other. I want a big brother myself.. who can just take care of me.. and i can forget all the worldly problems when i am with him.

After 32 years of existence.. still i am ALONE.. and LONELY... but i am ok.. i know... this is life.. and if i can get a little philosophical... we all are here alone.. so enjoy this loneliness... till my guy get used to me and start missing me like i miss him...

I really like this advertisement. Though it is an old one now, still i like the gay connotation in it in the end.. Enjoy...


RED boxers of ranbir


hey guys, i generally dont fantasize about bollywood guys.. but ranbir kapoor is ranbir kapoor. He is cute, he is smart, he is sexy, he is HOT , And specially in these pics with the red boxers he is looking like a gay icon.. what you guys say about him


Its About Choice

Why gay rights should matter to the rest of us
By Swagato Ganguly written in Times Of India, 23rd September 2009.

What could cause the Darul Uloom Deoband and the Jamiat Ulema-e-Hind to join forces with the Vishwa Hindu Parishad Answer: homosexuality, which according to all of the above should be severely punished by the law. Sikh and Christian bodies are also negative about repealing the parts of Section 377 which criminalise homosexuality. Joining them is a motley group of godmen, astrologers, politicians and now even a child rights group, the Delhi Commission for Protection of Child Rights.


Such a grand alliance is bound to make any move to decriminalise homosexuality a political hot potato, even if that is what the Indian Constitutions guarantee of equal rights to all citizens demands. Not surprisingly the Union cabinet played safe and lobbed the ball back to the Supreme Court, when asked for the governments position on whether gay sex ought to be legalised or not, following landmark legislation by the Delhi high court which declared much of Section 377 unconstitutional.


When India, in general, is keen to protect minorities of all sorts, what is it about this particular minority the homosexual community that presents seemingly intractable problems Its that homosexuals snap the bond between sex and procreation, invoking the spectre of individual pleasure that exceeds any collective, utilitarian ethic. The interesting thing about Section 377 is that it outlaws not just homosexual behaviour, but most forms of heterosexual activity that even lawfully married couples engage in. The only kind the law permits is that with direct procreative potential. Canute-like , Section 377 attempts to lock sex into a utilitarian grid.


Historically, most societies have sought utilitarian control over sex. Religions, especially proselytising ones, would like to multiply their numbers. Thus the biblical injunction to go forth and multiply. Socialism enforces an all-embracing altruism. According to its calculus individual pleasure can open the floodgates to selfish bourgeois vices. Thats why most communist countries brutally suppressed homosexuality. Ditto for fascist states. Authoritarian societies, in general, tend to see homosexuality as disruptive of social order and cohesion , a quality they prize above anything else. Early industrial capitalism, too, would like to expand the labour force to multiply production and profits. That gives it an interest in encouraging procreative heterosexual behaviour and driving homosexuality underground. Its only in late 20century, post-industrial capitalism predicated on consumption as much as it is on production that the equation begins to shift. With the modern consumer, individual pleasure matters and choice comes into play. Procreation and perpetuation of race/religion/ society/nation arent everything. Add to that the green imperatives of the early 21century, and growing populations with expanding ecological footprints even begin to look menacing.


The principle of choice can also extend to sexual lifestyles. Homosexual activity has been around for ages. But the notion of lifestyle , a peg on which one hangs ones very identity, emerges only under modern consumer capitalism. One can consume alternate sexualities. In that context the emergence of sexual minorities is a marker of ongoing globalisation. Its no accident that with liberalising and globalising tendencies washing up on Indian shores, the question of gay rights has come to the fore as well.


Take the gay pride parades which are being held in more and more Indian cities, reaching Bhubaneswar and Chennai this year. The annual parades are held in sync with similar events in cities across the world, and commemorate the Stonewall riots that took place in New Yorks Greenwich village in 1969. On June 27 of that year police raided the Stonewall Inn, a popular gay bar in the area. While such raids had been routine, on that occasion the crowds fought back and the neighbourhood erupted in riots and protests for the next few days. That event sparked the worldwide gay liberation movement. No wonder that Bhim Singh of the Jammu and Kashmir Panthers Party describes the movement to legalise homosexuality as an American invasion .


Its the 1960s that mark the shift to post-industrial capitalism, spurred by the global communications revolution which began that decade (causing Marshall McLuhan to quip, famously, that electronic technology was contracting the world into a global village ). According to social thinker Anthony Giddens the communications revolution dating from the 1960s ushered in a more radical and thoroughgoing modernity than that of the Enlightenment, touching the core of private life and incorporating what he calls emotional democracy . This is associated with the rise of new social movements that emphasise life politics (to do with private life) rather than emancipatory politics (to do only with public institutions). When Vikram Seth and others wrote an open letter addressing the government and judiciary, urging the overturning of Section 377 which punitively criminalises romantic love and private , consensual sexual acts , quite apart from the utilitarian value of combating HIV/AIDS, its also the private rights of the citizen that they are concerned to defend. Its time for the state to treat Indian citizens as adults, moving away from the patron-client relationship preferred by our political and bureaucratic elites.

YUGYAG is on Twitter... @yugyag

Hey Guys... Yugyag is on twitter.. now you can catch all the latest happenings on twitter as well..

http://twitter.com/yugyag

Finally my fear come alive..... my dad is not well....

Hey All,

Last one month has been one of the most glorious months for the gay community in India. We had gay parade on 28th November, which was much bigger than the last year. Then finally, consensual homosexual act has become legal, which is is BIG... and i mean BIG... victory for all gay rights activist.

But where the hell has been this YUGYAG... when all this were happening? Not Even one single post of jubiliation.

Can't help it dear all. But last 24th June, my dad fell, as he is suffering from epileptic fits. He hit the floor and got an internal injury. He spent 20 days in ICU and another 10 days in private ward. Though now , he is back home.. but he is not more than a vegetable. He is bed ridden. Does not recognise any of us. Speak irrelevant, and his mind is very disoriented. Last one month was like an year for me...

As busy as can be.....

I really, really felt so alone.. all this time. But by the grace of universal powers.. i never felt weak or timid.. it was only lonely... There was no one, who can hug me or even hold my hand and re-ensure that everything would be fine. There was no one, to take care of my food, my clothes, my things at the time when i was busy with my dad.

I felt guilty for my mom. As my dad is completely dependant on him. She has to take care of him as well as take care of household chores. Though now we have two 12 hours attendants, so there is somebody at help all 24 hours to take care of dad. But still nothing can replace family care.

There is so much... so much... brewing.. inside me.. i would like much more in the coming days..

But till then i would like all my readers to pray for my dad.. I am sure, he would be cured completely soon... just need all the positive energy and vibes..

Delhi Queer Pride '09




Announcing the Delhi Queer Pride '09! For the second year running queer people, friends, and allies take this message to the streets!


Queer Pride is a celebration. It is about loving who we are, whether lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, hijra or straight, and affirming everyone's right to be respected.

Starts at 5:30pm, Sunday, June 28th, 2009, at the corner of Barakhamba Road and Tolstoy Marg.


We'll gather at the Corner of Barakhamba Road and Tolstoy Marg at 5:00 pm. The Parade commences at 5:30, down Tolstoy Marg to Jantar Mantar, where we will have more celebrating!


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Delhi Queer Pride is an open forum. Anyone - gay, bisexual, transgender, lesbian or straight can join. Please email delhiqueerpride@gmail.com to be part of organising Delhi Queer Pride '09. For more information please visit http://delhiqueerpride.blogspot.com/
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The Queer Pride is organised by the LGBT community for the LGBT community and allies, and not by any organisations, and we hope that it can continue to be entirely funded by individual donations from queer and queer friendly people from India and elsewhere. To find out how you can donate and contribute to Queer Pride '09, please email finance.delhipride@gmail.com

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few lines about me :)

I m 31.5 yo.. pretty boring chap :)

Little Emotional... Little Practical..
Little Straight... Little Gay..
Little Happy... Little Sad..
and in all these littles.. there is somewhere.. hiding..


ME.. :)

Aggression on Bed


I met one of my gay friends after a long time, almost six months. Last i met him in the month of december 08, when we had sex.

This time, when we met, there was something a miss. I still didnt ask him anything but then he told me, that last time, when we had sex he felt hurt. It was more of physical hurt. I was too harsh with him during the act.

Now i know this friend, since last four years and we do have sex off and on. But he never complained me such. He said that i bit him too hard, and he felt aggression in me which was not called for.

I was not able to understand, why he felt so. I was just normal. But then I thought again.. and again... I think he is right, there can be few reasons for being aggressive on bed.

1. I am not getting enough sex and which is making me aggressive.
2. I am hurt emotionally, and thats why i am showing aggression during sex.

I was not able to find any other reason apart from two mentioned above for my aggression. I think i really need to have sex often... so that i should not hurt people while having sex.

Moily signals rethink on anti-gay law

New Delhi: Even as the Delhi High Court is close to giving its verdict on a 19th century colonial law that treats homosexual activity as a crime, here’s a shot in the arm for gay
rights. In an interview to a television channel on Thursday, law minister Veerappa Moily indicated that the government may do a rethink on the controversial Section 377 of IPC
that criminalizes private consensual sex between adults of the same sex.

Moily admitted that some sections of the IPC are outdated and Section 377 may be one of them. TNN
‘Amending Section 377 will curb spread of HIV’

New Delhi: Those part of the LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender) rights movement say a rethink by the government on Section 377 of IPC would be a big step forward. ‘‘It
will be the best thing for the national Aids control programme since efforts to curb the spread of HIV and AIDS will no longer be impeded by the law,’’ said Ashok Row Kavi,
consultant for UNAIDS and UNDP.

Moily’s statement comes at an interesting juncture as the high court has already finished hearing arguments on the petition filed by New Delhi-based non-profit group Naz

Foundation in 2001, seeking a reading down of section 377. While the health ministry had supported the petition, the home and law ministries were against it. If the law ministry
is indeed willing to do a rethink, experts say it has two options. It could submit before the court that it had changed its position and ask for hearings to be reopened.

Times View

This paper has supported the demand to abolish Section 377 of the Indian Penal Code which criminalizes homosexuality and carries a draconian sentence of up to 10 years.
Ironically, this colonial law that we inherited from the British has long been struck from their own law books. Legalities apart, a growing body of medical evidence suggests that
genes influence sexual preference. If that is so, how can homosexuality be considered ‘unnatural’? Regardless of whether it is nature or nurture that determines who is gay and who
is not, we believe it is a question of personal choice. We are happy that law minister Moily has indicated that the government may be willing to rethink the issue.

Source : TImes of India Newspaper dated 12-Jun-09

celina jaitley - latest gay friendly celebrity



I owe a BIG... BIG hug to Karan Johar. He did it with Dostana, which was almost impossible.

Today even the big fat aunties wrapped in silk sarees, with more than peek a boo of their big round tummies know that gay is not only "HAPPY".

I have seen, so many upmarket corporate guys, talking among themselves and making fun of one of their friends, saying " inka to bahut dostana hai".

So India has come its own word for GAY or HOMOSEXUAL.. DOSTANA... it is accepted by the indian society.

The latest celebrity to voice the Gay Issues is Celina Jetley.Check her blog on iTimes. I really appreciate her, standing for gay rights. Whenever any celebrity gets associated with any cause, it atleast gets publicity. That is what is happening regarding Gay Issues. I really liked the comment made by her.

"Hetrosexuality is not normal, it is only common"


I am also planning to study human rights, and work for Gay rights and human rights in general. Lets hope i can work for myself and my fellow gay people.








Teen detained for sodomizing, killing 6-yr-old

Dwaipayan Ghosh TNN

New Delhi: In yet another case of a minor being involved in a heinous crime, a 14-year-old boy has been detained for allegedly sodomizing and murdering a six-year-old. The shocking incident was reported from near the Inder weighing bridge off Sarai Kale Khan area on the banks of Yamuna.

According to the south-east district police, the accused, employed with a roadside hotel near the Sarai Kale Khan ISBT complex, had asked the sixyear-old victim to accompany him to the Yamuna banks off the DND flyway, on the pretext of collecting berries for him on Friday evening. The victim was the youngest among the four children of the hotel owner where the accused was presently employed.

‘‘The two boys reached a bush near Yamuna bank where the accused sodomized the six-yearold. When the victim threatened to spill the beans, the accused picked up a piece of cloth from the river bed and strangulated him. He then fled from the spot and joined the rescue parties looking for the boy,’’ said Shalini Singh, DCP, southeast.

According to chief investigator from the New Friends Colony police station, when the victim did not return to his house at Sunlight Colony on Friday night, his family members launched a massive search. ‘‘Initially, the victim’s father thought his son had drowned in the Yamuna and hence asked local boatsmen to look for him. Unable to find him, he lodged a kidnapping case on June 6 and the police recovered the victim’s mutilated body around 7 am on Sunday,’’ he told Times City.

‘‘Our teams visited the spot and the Sarai Kale Khan JJ clusters to investigate the case. The postmortem of the boy at AIIMS confirmed sodomy. We took some kids into confidence and finally detained the 14-year-old boy,’’ said DCP Singh.

Sources said a little girl revealed after she had asked the accused the whereabouts of the victim, he showed her the exact spot where the body was found. ‘‘He claimed he had divine powers to detect the movement of young children,’’ said a source. The police also came to know that the PCR call about the mutilated body was made by a weighing bridge owner at the instance of some ragpickers who in turn were informed of the body by the accused himself. ‘‘He confessed to the crime,’’ said Singh.

The accused was adopted by the victim’s father two years ago after he complained that his parents were ‘‘alcoholic’’ and ‘‘abused’’ him.

Source : Times of India, 9th June 09

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