Its About Choice

Why gay rights should matter to the rest of us
By Swagato Ganguly written in Times Of India, 23rd September 2009.

What could cause the Darul Uloom Deoband and the Jamiat Ulema-e-Hind to join forces with the Vishwa Hindu Parishad Answer: homosexuality, which according to all of the above should be severely punished by the law. Sikh and Christian bodies are also negative about repealing the parts of Section 377 which criminalise homosexuality. Joining them is a motley group of godmen, astrologers, politicians and now even a child rights group, the Delhi Commission for Protection of Child Rights.


Such a grand alliance is bound to make any move to decriminalise homosexuality a political hot potato, even if that is what the Indian Constitutions guarantee of equal rights to all citizens demands. Not surprisingly the Union cabinet played safe and lobbed the ball back to the Supreme Court, when asked for the governments position on whether gay sex ought to be legalised or not, following landmark legislation by the Delhi high court which declared much of Section 377 unconstitutional.


When India, in general, is keen to protect minorities of all sorts, what is it about this particular minority the homosexual community that presents seemingly intractable problems Its that homosexuals snap the bond between sex and procreation, invoking the spectre of individual pleasure that exceeds any collective, utilitarian ethic. The interesting thing about Section 377 is that it outlaws not just homosexual behaviour, but most forms of heterosexual activity that even lawfully married couples engage in. The only kind the law permits is that with direct procreative potential. Canute-like , Section 377 attempts to lock sex into a utilitarian grid.


Historically, most societies have sought utilitarian control over sex. Religions, especially proselytising ones, would like to multiply their numbers. Thus the biblical injunction to go forth and multiply. Socialism enforces an all-embracing altruism. According to its calculus individual pleasure can open the floodgates to selfish bourgeois vices. Thats why most communist countries brutally suppressed homosexuality. Ditto for fascist states. Authoritarian societies, in general, tend to see homosexuality as disruptive of social order and cohesion , a quality they prize above anything else. Early industrial capitalism, too, would like to expand the labour force to multiply production and profits. That gives it an interest in encouraging procreative heterosexual behaviour and driving homosexuality underground. Its only in late 20century, post-industrial capitalism predicated on consumption as much as it is on production that the equation begins to shift. With the modern consumer, individual pleasure matters and choice comes into play. Procreation and perpetuation of race/religion/ society/nation arent everything. Add to that the green imperatives of the early 21century, and growing populations with expanding ecological footprints even begin to look menacing.


The principle of choice can also extend to sexual lifestyles. Homosexual activity has been around for ages. But the notion of lifestyle , a peg on which one hangs ones very identity, emerges only under modern consumer capitalism. One can consume alternate sexualities. In that context the emergence of sexual minorities is a marker of ongoing globalisation. Its no accident that with liberalising and globalising tendencies washing up on Indian shores, the question of gay rights has come to the fore as well.


Take the gay pride parades which are being held in more and more Indian cities, reaching Bhubaneswar and Chennai this year. The annual parades are held in sync with similar events in cities across the world, and commemorate the Stonewall riots that took place in New Yorks Greenwich village in 1969. On June 27 of that year police raided the Stonewall Inn, a popular gay bar in the area. While such raids had been routine, on that occasion the crowds fought back and the neighbourhood erupted in riots and protests for the next few days. That event sparked the worldwide gay liberation movement. No wonder that Bhim Singh of the Jammu and Kashmir Panthers Party describes the movement to legalise homosexuality as an American invasion .


Its the 1960s that mark the shift to post-industrial capitalism, spurred by the global communications revolution which began that decade (causing Marshall McLuhan to quip, famously, that electronic technology was contracting the world into a global village ). According to social thinker Anthony Giddens the communications revolution dating from the 1960s ushered in a more radical and thoroughgoing modernity than that of the Enlightenment, touching the core of private life and incorporating what he calls emotional democracy . This is associated with the rise of new social movements that emphasise life politics (to do with private life) rather than emancipatory politics (to do only with public institutions). When Vikram Seth and others wrote an open letter addressing the government and judiciary, urging the overturning of Section 377 which punitively criminalises romantic love and private , consensual sexual acts , quite apart from the utilitarian value of combating HIV/AIDS, its also the private rights of the citizen that they are concerned to defend. Its time for the state to treat Indian citizens as adults, moving away from the patron-client relationship preferred by our political and bureaucratic elites.

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Finally my fear come alive..... my dad is not well....

Hey All,

Last one month has been one of the most glorious months for the gay community in India. We had gay parade on 28th November, which was much bigger than the last year. Then finally, consensual homosexual act has become legal, which is is BIG... and i mean BIG... victory for all gay rights activist.

But where the hell has been this YUGYAG... when all this were happening? Not Even one single post of jubiliation.

Can't help it dear all. But last 24th June, my dad fell, as he is suffering from epileptic fits. He hit the floor and got an internal injury. He spent 20 days in ICU and another 10 days in private ward. Though now , he is back home.. but he is not more than a vegetable. He is bed ridden. Does not recognise any of us. Speak irrelevant, and his mind is very disoriented. Last one month was like an year for me...

As busy as can be.....

I really, really felt so alone.. all this time. But by the grace of universal powers.. i never felt weak or timid.. it was only lonely... There was no one, who can hug me or even hold my hand and re-ensure that everything would be fine. There was no one, to take care of my food, my clothes, my things at the time when i was busy with my dad.

I felt guilty for my mom. As my dad is completely dependant on him. She has to take care of him as well as take care of household chores. Though now we have two 12 hours attendants, so there is somebody at help all 24 hours to take care of dad. But still nothing can replace family care.

There is so much... so much... brewing.. inside me.. i would like much more in the coming days..

But till then i would like all my readers to pray for my dad.. I am sure, he would be cured completely soon... just need all the positive energy and vibes..

Delhi Queer Pride '09




Announcing the Delhi Queer Pride '09! For the second year running queer people, friends, and allies take this message to the streets!


Queer Pride is a celebration. It is about loving who we are, whether lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, hijra or straight, and affirming everyone's right to be respected.

Starts at 5:30pm, Sunday, June 28th, 2009, at the corner of Barakhamba Road and Tolstoy Marg.


We'll gather at the Corner of Barakhamba Road and Tolstoy Marg at 5:00 pm. The Parade commences at 5:30, down Tolstoy Marg to Jantar Mantar, where we will have more celebrating!


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Delhi Queer Pride is an open forum. Anyone - gay, bisexual, transgender, lesbian or straight can join. Please email delhiqueerpride@gmail.com to be part of organising Delhi Queer Pride '09. For more information please visit http://delhiqueerpride.blogspot.com/
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The Queer Pride is organised by the LGBT community for the LGBT community and allies, and not by any organisations, and we hope that it can continue to be entirely funded by individual donations from queer and queer friendly people from India and elsewhere. To find out how you can donate and contribute to Queer Pride '09, please email finance.delhipride@gmail.com

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few lines about me :)

I m 31.5 yo.. pretty boring chap :)

Little Emotional... Little Practical..
Little Straight... Little Gay..
Little Happy... Little Sad..
and in all these littles.. there is somewhere.. hiding..


ME.. :)

Aggression on Bed


I met one of my gay friends after a long time, almost six months. Last i met him in the month of december 08, when we had sex.

This time, when we met, there was something a miss. I still didnt ask him anything but then he told me, that last time, when we had sex he felt hurt. It was more of physical hurt. I was too harsh with him during the act.

Now i know this friend, since last four years and we do have sex off and on. But he never complained me such. He said that i bit him too hard, and he felt aggression in me which was not called for.

I was not able to understand, why he felt so. I was just normal. But then I thought again.. and again... I think he is right, there can be few reasons for being aggressive on bed.

1. I am not getting enough sex and which is making me aggressive.
2. I am hurt emotionally, and thats why i am showing aggression during sex.

I was not able to find any other reason apart from two mentioned above for my aggression. I think i really need to have sex often... so that i should not hurt people while having sex.

Moily signals rethink on anti-gay law

New Delhi: Even as the Delhi High Court is close to giving its verdict on a 19th century colonial law that treats homosexual activity as a crime, here’s a shot in the arm for gay
rights. In an interview to a television channel on Thursday, law minister Veerappa Moily indicated that the government may do a rethink on the controversial Section 377 of IPC
that criminalizes private consensual sex between adults of the same sex.

Moily admitted that some sections of the IPC are outdated and Section 377 may be one of them. TNN
‘Amending Section 377 will curb spread of HIV’

New Delhi: Those part of the LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender) rights movement say a rethink by the government on Section 377 of IPC would be a big step forward. ‘‘It
will be the best thing for the national Aids control programme since efforts to curb the spread of HIV and AIDS will no longer be impeded by the law,’’ said Ashok Row Kavi,
consultant for UNAIDS and UNDP.

Moily’s statement comes at an interesting juncture as the high court has already finished hearing arguments on the petition filed by New Delhi-based non-profit group Naz

Foundation in 2001, seeking a reading down of section 377. While the health ministry had supported the petition, the home and law ministries were against it. If the law ministry
is indeed willing to do a rethink, experts say it has two options. It could submit before the court that it had changed its position and ask for hearings to be reopened.

Times View

This paper has supported the demand to abolish Section 377 of the Indian Penal Code which criminalizes homosexuality and carries a draconian sentence of up to 10 years.
Ironically, this colonial law that we inherited from the British has long been struck from their own law books. Legalities apart, a growing body of medical evidence suggests that
genes influence sexual preference. If that is so, how can homosexuality be considered ‘unnatural’? Regardless of whether it is nature or nurture that determines who is gay and who
is not, we believe it is a question of personal choice. We are happy that law minister Moily has indicated that the government may be willing to rethink the issue.

Source : TImes of India Newspaper dated 12-Jun-09

celina jaitley - latest gay friendly celebrity



I owe a BIG... BIG hug to Karan Johar. He did it with Dostana, which was almost impossible.

Today even the big fat aunties wrapped in silk sarees, with more than peek a boo of their big round tummies know that gay is not only "HAPPY".

I have seen, so many upmarket corporate guys, talking among themselves and making fun of one of their friends, saying " inka to bahut dostana hai".

So India has come its own word for GAY or HOMOSEXUAL.. DOSTANA... it is accepted by the indian society.

The latest celebrity to voice the Gay Issues is Celina Jetley.Check her blog on iTimes. I really appreciate her, standing for gay rights. Whenever any celebrity gets associated with any cause, it atleast gets publicity. That is what is happening regarding Gay Issues. I really liked the comment made by her.

"Hetrosexuality is not normal, it is only common"


I am also planning to study human rights, and work for Gay rights and human rights in general. Lets hope i can work for myself and my fellow gay people.








Teen detained for sodomizing, killing 6-yr-old

Dwaipayan Ghosh TNN

New Delhi: In yet another case of a minor being involved in a heinous crime, a 14-year-old boy has been detained for allegedly sodomizing and murdering a six-year-old. The shocking incident was reported from near the Inder weighing bridge off Sarai Kale Khan area on the banks of Yamuna.

According to the south-east district police, the accused, employed with a roadside hotel near the Sarai Kale Khan ISBT complex, had asked the sixyear-old victim to accompany him to the Yamuna banks off the DND flyway, on the pretext of collecting berries for him on Friday evening. The victim was the youngest among the four children of the hotel owner where the accused was presently employed.

‘‘The two boys reached a bush near Yamuna bank where the accused sodomized the six-yearold. When the victim threatened to spill the beans, the accused picked up a piece of cloth from the river bed and strangulated him. He then fled from the spot and joined the rescue parties looking for the boy,’’ said Shalini Singh, DCP, southeast.

According to chief investigator from the New Friends Colony police station, when the victim did not return to his house at Sunlight Colony on Friday night, his family members launched a massive search. ‘‘Initially, the victim’s father thought his son had drowned in the Yamuna and hence asked local boatsmen to look for him. Unable to find him, he lodged a kidnapping case on June 6 and the police recovered the victim’s mutilated body around 7 am on Sunday,’’ he told Times City.

‘‘Our teams visited the spot and the Sarai Kale Khan JJ clusters to investigate the case. The postmortem of the boy at AIIMS confirmed sodomy. We took some kids into confidence and finally detained the 14-year-old boy,’’ said DCP Singh.

Sources said a little girl revealed after she had asked the accused the whereabouts of the victim, he showed her the exact spot where the body was found. ‘‘He claimed he had divine powers to detect the movement of young children,’’ said a source. The police also came to know that the PCR call about the mutilated body was made by a weighing bridge owner at the instance of some ragpickers who in turn were informed of the body by the accused himself. ‘‘He confessed to the crime,’’ said Singh.

The accused was adopted by the victim’s father two years ago after he complained that his parents were ‘‘alcoholic’’ and ‘‘abused’’ him.

Source : Times of India, 9th June 09

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Delhi’s gay story, ch 2

The Delhi gay parade, after being a hit in its first edition last year, is going to be bigger and better in its second year

Delhi’s going to be happy, gay and proud of it again this year – the city’s second Queer pride March is all set to be held on June 28 this year. June 28 is the date of gay pride parades and marches all over the world because it is the date of the Stonewall riots in the USA back in 1969, when there was a spontaneous riot against persecution of homosexuals at the Stonewall Inn in New York City.

The march this year will start around 5.30 pm at the intersection of Barakhamba Road and Tolstoy Marg in CP, and will continue along Tolstoy Marg, ending at Jantar Mantar. Monish, a Queer Pride Committee member, says that they were expecting about 300-400 people last time, but at 1200, the turnout exceeded their expectations. “This time too, we’re expecting a huge turnout – around three times that of last year,” he says. He adds that, like last year, they’ll have a Pride party where fundraising will be done through individual financial contributions and volunteer support. The Delhi march coincides with that in Bangalore.

Gay rights activist Leslie Esteves, who organised the march last year, says, “Last time, because it all came through at the last minute, we didn’t have enough time to spread the word. But this time, we are prepared. And so, there’ll be people not only from Delhi, but also from other states in the North.”

Ponni, a queer feminist activist, says, “This year, the march has a little more significance for us as the most of the arguments for the legal case over Article 377 have ended and we’re waiting for the judgment to come, soon after the march takes place.”

Hair Cut and Head Massage


Today I went for my hair cut. It was my normal barber who charges only Rs.25/-. It is recession time so i don't want to waste my money. The other saloon charges Rs.100/- per cut.

It is a small shop. A regular hair cutting shop which has just three chairs. Without AC and all. That guy gave me a good haircut but i was not satisfied. I wanted some more fun.

Then i thought of going to other shop and get something done. It was already 2130 hours in the night. I already took a fresh haircut from one barber, so i still had some hair strands stuck on my face and body. Still I went through some more barber shops and finally decide on one, where there was just one barber.

I went in and asked him, if he can give me a head massage. He saw me with doubts and said ok. I waited for five minutes for him to get free and then i sat in the chair. He asked me about my fresh haircut. I made an excuse that there was a power cut and that barber didnt have power back up so my head massage is pending.

He was giving me head massage and i was getting high by his touch and feel. Then , he was stretching my arms by pulling them in opposite side and that how, my hand touches his stomach. I quickly open my palm so i can have good feel of his stomach. WOW. it was such a flat stomach. I felt it for atleast ten seconds, after which he kept my hand back in place.

It was a short head massage. But Now i have got another person whom i can put on my hit list.

Hope i can enjoy one day with this guy too.

Till Then Keep on getting your hair cut from sexy barbers :)

Gay couples ‘marry’ with parents’ approval, havan and the works

Last week, Durban-based sales advisor Joe Singh and his partner Wesley Nolan solemnized their relationship at a ceremony where a Hindu priest officiated. In the Singh living room, Wesley tied a necklace with a Ganesha pendant around Joe’s neck. The couple, now honeymooning in Mauritius, chose the Ganesha instead of garlands because both of them are “staunch Hindus’’ and wanted the Elephant God to “ward off evil and remove obstacles from their path’’.

The grooms had sent out shimmering wedding invitations weeks in advance, had hand-embroidered shervanis shipped all the way from India, and took their vows before a havan or sacred fire. They spent 18 months preparing for their big day and Joe’s mother Rita Govender said the family had been extraordinarily supportive.

A year ago, a Mumbaibased IT professional married his white boyfriend of five years in a boisterous ceremony in Seattle. They too had the shervanis and havan. Roughly 450 people attended, many of them uncles and aunts from Mumbai. The boy’s parents initially had reservations about making their son’s sexuality public. “But by the end of it, his mother was in mother-in-law mode,’’ says one of the guests.

These happy stories may sound unbelievable given the many accounts of social hostility to gay people. But the fact is that same-sex marriage ceremonies have been performed in Indian households, rich and poor, and in cities and small towns alike. The nuptials may not have legal validity but the ritual is remarkable in a country where homosexuality is still considered a criminal act and punishable by up to 10 years in the clink. Ironically, the police cannot bust a samesex marriage because a ceremony cannot prove homosexuality as defined by Section 377 of the IPC.

An activist from Gay Bombay confirms that there are reports of unions every week, be they a lesbian couple in Punjab or Kerala or gay men in Gujarat or Delhi. Ashok Row Kavi, who opened the closet in India, says he knows several gay couples who tied the knot. “There’s one big plus-point about Hindu priests,’’ says Kavi with a straight face. “They’ll forget about everything if you show them a few bucks.’’

Same-sex marriage ceremonies are not an entirely new phenomenon, although they’ve largely stayed unnoticed. Sixteen years ago, when Aditya Advani told his parents he was gay, his mother hugged him and suggested he place a newspaper ad seeking a suitable boy. Two years later, in 1993, he brought Michael Tarr home to meet the family. It was then that Aditya complained about having to attend yet another family wedding. “I don’t know these people, why do I have to go to the wedding? They would never come to mine”. To which, his mother, a lawyer, who Aditya says “tends to shake the premise of things’’, responded, “Why not? Let’s have a ceremony for Michael and you.’’


Whose house will the baraat leave from?


In the drawing room of the Advanis’ Sundernagar home in Delhi, Aditya Advani and Michael Torr exchanged garlands and made the pheras in the presence of two bronze idols of Lord Hari Hara, a deity that represents the union of Shiva and Vishnu. The family’s spiritual mentor, Swami Bodhananda, presided over the simple but radical ceremony.

While very few parents are as liberal as Aditya’s, there are cases when even conservative mothers have come around. As happened in the case of an Indian lesbian in the US, who came out to her traditional Gujarati family. After the tears and tantrums came a grudging acceptance. “Finally, her mother told her that if she had to marry a woman, she should at least make sure she was a Gujarati girl. ‘And make sure you send her to me so I can teach her to cook the way our family does’, her mother said. She was also worried by one more question: whose house will the baraat leave from?’’ laughs an activist who knows the girl.

For San Jose residents Arvind Kumar and Ashok Jethanandani too, exchanging vows in Arvind’s brother house in Toronto was the most memorable day of their lives.

Activists say that the same-sex marriage movement has emerged independent of the other issues in the gay rights movement. Homophobia and HIV are believed to be more pressing battles. Ashok Row Kavi opposes marriage as an “oppressive heterosexual institution’’. Yet, say activists, it’s a need that can’t be wished away.

Most of the same-sex couples who have had big ceremonies live outside India in more open-minded climes like California. One of the few exceptions is the Goa-based celebrity couple of designer Wendell Rodricks and his French partner Jerome Marrel. Last year they completed 25 years together. In 2003, Wendell and Jerome signed the PACS, a French civil ceremony which though not technically a wedding gives same-sex couples rights like any other couple. Aditya and Michael were extremely lucky that their family priest, Swami Bodhananda, agreed to preside. “He thought about it for a few days, and then said he understood me and that we could have a ceremony in the presence of Lord Hari Hara,’’ says Aditya. Other gay couples have been less fortunate. “One couple had to eventually be married by a recorded tape which chanted the mantras,’’ says a Mumbai-based software engineer.

(No names have been changed)

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I am gay & single .. but why my parents has to suffer



I am 30 yo.. and my dad is 67 years and mom is 63 yrs old. Being the only son, i have responsibilities of my parents. Unfortunately they are not very active at this juncture of life. My dad suffers from heart disease, artheritis and sometimes he gets epilepsy fits.. which can not be cured as he already had an operation of brain at his young age. And now when doctor has advised us to do his brain surgery again, we refused. So my dad is actually home ridden only.

Its my mom, who generally does all the day to day outside work.. for example submission of electricity, phone and water bills, or going to bank to withdraw the money.. etc.. etc... I am too busy with my work or my so called social life to bother about these things... But today i am scared... i dont know what to do.. and hence i am sharing this thing with you all.

My mom went today to deposit property tax. She had Rs.5000/- in cash to deposit.. There was a HUGE rush of people at that place. One middle aged guy, who was very prim and proper approached my mom and offered her to deposit the tax for her. She asked her to give the money to him so that he can deposit the money for her. Though initially she was reluctant to give her the cash for deposit but somehow, she agreed to it and as soon as she gave him the cash and the form to deposit. That guy vanished.. Obviously.. he had to ...

ANy normal person may think, that how stupid my mom was to believe on that guy. And it deserved her.. BUT NO....

I know my mom.. how fragile she is... still she has to do all such stupid work.. which actually i should be responsible for. I dont blame my mom for this. Rather i am thankful that mom was saved. The guy only too the cash for the property tax. He didnt snatched my mom's purse or her jewellery.

But this incident raised a so many doubts, thoughts and questions in my mind.

You all know that i am GAY , and i am not gonna marry... So who will take care of my parents. How i can save them from such incidents. My first thought was to hire a domestic help. But in todays world, even domestic helps are much more dangerous. For them aged people are easy pray and they can kill them for looting the house.

Now i am really very worried for them. I am not able to think, as to how can i help my parents.

The question is not only about gay or straight.. but now a days, with the increase number of divorces, many individuals prefer to stay single. So how can they make sure that their parents back at home are safe and sound.

Please help me and suggest me some ways, which are practical...so that i can have a work life balance.

Crossed 1000 hits


YUGYAG is less than three months old.. and it has crossed 1000 visiter mark.


I am really grateful and thankful to all my readers. Special thanks for all those who are reading my blog and rather wait for my postings. Thanks to all those who have been commenting on my posts and sharing your thoughts about it. Here, I have to mention Mohan as my special reader. He is regularly reading my blog and also commenting on my articles, which inspire me to write more for you all. Believe me, he is not known to me. I still dont know anything about him but still he reads it and writes the comments. Thanks Mohan....


What a writer requires.. .only acknowledgement of its readers...


I hope to write much more.. so that you guys can read my blog with more interests.. By the way, you can definitely share your views and thoughts about my posts and tell me if you want to read more about some particular thing...


Thanks again.


YUGYAG

Nudism..... Its perfectly ok my friend.. even in india...


When I was a kid I used to ruin my clothes a lot, So my parents started keeping me naked. This became a habbit. When I used to come from school I would just be naked watching TV on sofa etc etc. It just went on till age 15 after which I started wearing undies b4 them. ever since childhood I have seen that my dad would just wear his VIP Frenchie when he was in the house.... like watching TV ... lying on the sofa. so i was also confortable.

Is there anything bad in this.... That was the question, one of my friend asked me after telling me his story as above.

My one word answer.. NO! Its Not.

And yes, i really believe it so. I have seen families where nudism is ok. There was one of my friend, whose father used to wear only undies (though those undies were more like boxer shorts, u know typical striped indian style of undies). But he never felt awkward or uncomfortable. He used to roam around like that even when i go to his place. And frankly speaking i was pretty ok with it. Never felt anything wrong or bad.

Hence as above mentioned.. if my friend's family men, wear only VIP frenchie. i think thats perfectly OK. Tell you waht, i have a friend, who used to roam around in his house like this only, though in his house he had only his male room mates. But still a straight guy roaming in his undies.. which stuck in his his crack from behind and show me his bubble butt.. and which show complete outline of his soft dick.. WOW.. what a scene. Unfortunately he was straight, and i didnt want to ruin my friendship with him by molesting him. Of course I am gay.. i can salivate, oogling at any hot male... but i am not a slut.. trying to get hold of every avaiable dick in town..

I think nudism goes in India.... Havent u seen the nude pictures in our scripturs.. On the ajanta and ellora caves.. Isnt it naturist side of indians... I just wanna tell my friend.. This is perfectly ok and he should not worry about it.

I wont mind becoming a naturist myself and roaming naked in the house.. yeah it still depends on who all are there in the house. But if the people in the house are ok and comfortable with the idea of being nudist or naturist. Then whats the problem.

Do you know, i and my flat mate used to roam around naked when i was staying with him, three years ago. Yes we were in sort of relationship and hence it never felt awkward if we took our bath with an open door. We were pretty comfortable with eacch other's soft dicks hanging low... even with his soft pounch he was sweet little teddy bear for me..

Are there any indian mates.. who supports the idea of nudism or naturist..

I hope my usage of these words as synonyms is fine. I am new to it...nudism buddy... so my apologies if i m wrong..

Attention... Care... and Physical Intimacy & compatibility

I had a discussion with my friend... with whom i am planning for a long term. And he has told me that he wasnt three things from his boyfriend.

1. Attention
2. Care and
3. Physical Intimacy & compatibility

I think, he is pretty logical and good of him to point out these three things. Lets see if i am able to meet his expectations in all three areas.. I dont know yet...

But i know one thing.. .If i really love someone.. then i can be totally dedicated to him... But i dont know why, this feeling of love is not coming to me.. Its like you want to have sex, but you are not getting orgasm... I am really feeling irritating as i really wanna love someone... but still i am not getting that feelings... that emotions...

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