7 ways to get the guy you want
Here are the seven ways to get the guy you want
1. Clear about your desire/ need :
What are you looking for? Just a sex mate, a hook up for one night or a soulmate for lifetime. Be clear about your needs - to yourself as well as to the other person. If you meet a person, without being clear about your needs, you may well end up with a confuse state.
Perhaps you will think about him as a soulmate on day one, but he turns out to be only one night stand, I am sure you will feel hurt. So if you are looking for a soulmate, talk to him, understand him before going to bed.
If you are looking only for a sex mate, then be sure you use condoms while enjoying on the bed, or may be outside, if you guys are little more than plain vanila.
2. Socialize:
There is life beyond your work too. Socialize with a capital S. Till the time, you dont meet people, how will you find the right guy for you. You need to kiss a lot of frogs to find your prince dear. No one will come and knock on your door, just for you. Herea are a few ways to socialize
- Visit networking sites.
- Meet people in clubs, through friends.
- Talking to people in public transport is another innovative way to socialize.
- Join hobby classes.
3. Be genuinely interested in other people
Not only MEN, but other wise too, people do notice, if you are saying hello to them just for the sake of it or if you are really interested in them. If you really care, be genuinely interested in other men. I am sure other men will be genuinely interested in you as well. It is the universal law, you get what you give.
4. Look for Good things in others
BE POSITIVE. (Not HIV +ve stupid! LOL) Try to find out good things in others and appreciate the same. Tell them, how much you like it and rather help them in making it better. Lets say you like a guy who has a very good body, you should not only tell him about his good physique but help him in his endeavour to develp a great body. May be you can tell about a better physical trainer or even a better pair of shoes which he can wear to the gym.
5.Be the guy yourself, you want:
You are looking for a drop dead gorgeous guy. 90% of handsome hunks would like to hang around with other handsome hunks as well. Hence you need to be smart enough.
- Hit a gym,
- Change your wardrobe,
- Go to a hairstylist
I am sure, you will be more noticeable to your kind of guys, if you yourself is like them.
6. Hygiene
Please. Please. Please. Shower daily! change your clothes, specially inner clothes. if you are not maintaining a moustache or beard properly then please shave before meeting the guy. Use good deodorant and never forget to wear a smile.
99% of guys won't like a guy smelling of cum. Though i dont mind it if i am in kinky mood ;)
7. Have Faith
I am not asking you to be religious, but be spiritual for sure. Just have faith and keep hanging, you will definitely get your kind of person, sooner or later. It is only a matter of time. You can obviously pray too. It has a lot of power. Think and imagine the kind of guy you would like to be with , and the universal forces will help you in achieving the same.
perhaps only when the desire to recieve is subsumed by the desire to give does love happen.
but then its important to know whether the hunt is for love or a roll in the hay.
a roll in the hay is easy. love is a different kettle of fish.
you can tell your readers to decide. they can not have both.
Anonymous said... March 24, 2008 at 1:24 AM
you know..i was dreamy eyed, full of optimism and all...and i hate to say that I have become cynical
Nothing in the book works...it's just the 'face'value that sells in the gay world
The Line of Beauty said... May 20, 2008 at 3:46 PM
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