AGE & GAY CYCLE
I am 30 years old currently. It is almost 30% of my life has been spent. I have just divided my life in various age categories and done the analysis of my gay behaviour.. .Below written article is only as per my thoughts. I have not done any research for this. This is based on my experience with gays of different age groups.
Under 16 yrs. :
Curious! Guys under 16 gets initiated in gay sex, either by force, or by curiosity. For 80% of the people i have met till date, it was either some friend or someone in family who forced them into it. I was also intiated by one of my cousin. That cousin is now married..to a girl... and i am still here looking for my soulmate.
16 yrs - 20 yrs :
This is the age, when a guy wants to WIN THE WORLD.. and what better way to do it but sexually. Irrespective of him being bottom or top, he wants to lure people, loves the attention of other gays, and feels on top of the world, by exploring his sexual energies. Unfortunately, i never had any gay sex during that time, apart from having it with my another straight cousin.
20yrs - 25yrs :
Experimental! This is the time, when the experiments starts for most of the gay guys. Vanila moves and give way to chocolate, kinky, bondage and what else. Guy is free to experiment with his sexuality. He doesn't have any responsibility and can spend most of his time experimenting with all his one night stands. Yes i have my share of kinky sex too..
25 yrs - 35 yrs :
It is around 25 + of age, a guy starts looking for more than just a one night stand. He is looking for a friend, preferably a long term relationship. Now he wants to enjoy the companionship as well, and sex is not the only criteria. Here i am looking for a relationship, a meaningful relationship.
35 yrs - 50yrs :
Feelings of this age group of people can be divided under two headings
1. Understanding
2. Desparation
Understanding of self, of gay relationships, of world in general starts taking place at this age. Guys get more philosophical. Also the work pressure and interaction with other people, carve them as more responsible people. They either take refuge in their work, or they try working for bigger causes, forgetting the angst of being a lonely gay.
But this is the age group, where desparation also starts. The body needs intimacy, and an old guy without a companion can be desparate to do anything for it. Here comes our sugar daddy, mature bottoms who can agree to anything, seductors, and also perhaps this desparation can lead to easy targets which results in molestation and seduction of young guys..
50 yrs - 60yrs :
UNDERSTANDING!The gays of this age group are much more understanding. They have seen the world. Had there share of sex, and thrills. Now it is the time, to spend with few friends who have been earned during the lifetime.
60 yrs Above :
Life's beautiful phase depends you spend it alone or with your dear one.
I wish.. i have someone to spend this time of 60 yrs and above. the time when i am free to enjoy the remaining years of my life. When i am far from the day today responsibilities and worries.
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